Effects of Sexual Assault

Sexual assault can have long lasting effects which have a deep psychological, emotional, and physical impact on your well being. Learn more about the impact dealing sex assault have on you, your life, and your relationships.

About Sexual Assault

Sexual assault (also known as sex assault) is a very personal and destructive crime. Its effects on you and your loved ones can be psychological, emotional, and/or physical. They can be brief in duration or last a very long time. It is important to remember that there is not one "normal" reaction to sexual assault. Therefore, your individual response to the assault and aftermath will be different depending on your personal circumstances. Learn about some of the more common effects that sexual assault victims may experience and the explanations behind those effects.

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    Depression is one effect of sexual assault. There are many emotional and psychological reactions that victims of rape and sexual assault can experience. One of the most common of these is depression. The term "depression" can be confusing since many of the symptoms are experienced by people as normal reactions to events. At some point or another, everyone feels sad or "blue." This also means that recognizing depression can be difficult since the symptoms can easily be attributed to other causes. These feelings are perfectly normal, especially during difficult times and during crisis.

    Depression becomes something more than just normal feelings of sadness when the symptoms last for more than two weeks. Therefore, if you experience five or more of the symptoms of depression over the course of two weeks you should consider talking to your doctor about what you are experiencing.


    Depression Symptoms

    The symptoms of depression may include:

    • Prolonged sadness or unexplained crying spells
    • Significant change in weight or appetite
    • Loss of energy or persistent fatigue
    • Significant change in sleep patterns (insomnia, sleeping too much, fitful sleep, etc.)
    • Loss of interest and pleasure in activities previously enjoyed; social withdrawal
    • Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness or guilt
    • Pessimism or indifference
    • Unexplained aches and pains (headaches, stomachaches)
    • Inability to concentrate, indecisiveness
    • Irritability, worry, anger, agitation, or anxiety
    • Thoughts of death or suicide
      • If you are having suicidal thoughts, don't wait to get help. Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) at any time.

    Depression can affect people of any age, gender, race, ethnicity, or religion. Depression is not a sign of weakness, and it is not something that someone can make him/herself "snap out of."


    Flashbacks can be result from sexual assaults. This occurs when memories of past traumas feel as if they are taking place in the current moment. These memories can take many forms including dreams, sounds, smells, images, body sensations, or overwhelming emotions. This re-experience of the trauma often seems to come from nowhere, and therefore blurs the lines between past and present, leaving the individual feeling anxious, scared, and/or powerless. It can also trigger any other emotions that were felt at the time of the trauma.

    Some flashbacks are mild and brief and only last for a passing moment, while others may be powerful and last a long time. Many times, you may not even realize that you are having a flashback and may feel faint and/or dissociate (a mental process in which your thoughts and feelings may be separated from your immediate reality). If you realize you are in the middle of a flashback, there are a few things which are beneficial to focus on.


    First, Get Grounded
    • The first thing to do is sit up straight and put both feet on the floor. This will help you to feel grounded.
    Be In the Present
    • It can be helpful to remind yourself that the event you are reliving happened in the past and you are now in the present. The actual event is over, and you survived.
    • Try focusing on your breathing. One way to do that is to count to four as you breathe in. Count to four as you hold that breath and then count to four as you exhale. If you do this and keep repeating it, you may find that you can become calmer and can be in the present.
    Pay Attention to Surroundings
    • Another way to help yourself feel like you are in the present is to pay attention to your surroundings. What is the light in the room like right now? Touch something around you that is grounded like a table or a chair. What does it feel like? Can you smell anything? Do you hear any sounds?
    • Are there things that normally make you feel safe and secure like wrapping a blanket around yourself or making some tea?
    • Also, remember that it can take time to recover. You are not crazy. This is a normal reaction.
    Take Care of Yourself
    • Give yourself time to recover after a flashback. Reach out to loved ones or counselors who will be supportive.

    Rape Trauma

    Rape trauma is a common reaction to rape or sexual assault. It is a normal human reaction to an unnatural or extreme event. There are three phases to rape trauma.

    Acute Phase

    The acute phase of rape trauma occurs immediately after the assault and usually lasts a few days to several weeks. In this phase, you can have many reactions but they typically fall into three different categories:

    • Expressed: when you are openly emotional
    • Controlled: when you appear to be without emotion, and act as if "nothing happened" and "everything is fine"
    • Shocked disbelief: when you react with a strong sense of disorientation
    Outward Adjustment Phase

    The outward adjustment phase of rape trauma resumes what appears to be your "normal" life, but inside you are still suffering from considerable turmoil. This phase has five primary coping techniques:

    • Minimization: pretending that everything is fine or convincing yourself that "it could have been worse"
    • Dramatization: you cannot stop talking about the assault and it dominates your life and identity
    • Suppression: you refuse to discuss the event and act as if it did not happen
    • Explanation: you analyze what happened, what you did and what the rapist was thinking/feeling
    • Flight: you try to escape the pain (moving, changing jobs, changing appearance, changing relationships, etc.)
    Resolution Phase

    In the resolution phase of rape trauma, the assault is no longer the central focus of your life. While you may recognize that you will never forget the assault, the pain and negative outcomes lessen over time. Often you will begin to accept the rape as part of your life and choose to move on.

    NOTE: This model assumes that you will take steps forward and backwards in your healing process and that while there are phases it is not a linear progression and will be different for every person.

    Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

    Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a normal human reaction to an extreme or abnormal situation. Each person has a different threshold for what is perceived as a traumatic event. PTSD is not a rare or unusual occurrence, in fact, many people experience PTSD as a result of a traumatic experience such as rape or sexual assault. You may be experiencing PTSD if you have experienced the following symptoms for at least a month:

    • Shown symptoms of intense horror, helplessness, or fear
    • Experienced distressing memories of the event
    • Regularly avoided things or triggers that remind you of the event
    • Shown significant impairment or distress due to the event
    • Shown at least two symptoms of increased arousal (sleep difficulties, difficulty concentrating, hyper vigilance, an exaggerated startle response, or irritability or outbursts of anger/rage)


    Pregnancy can be an effect of sex assaults. Because rape, just like consensual sex, can lead to pregnancy, it is important for female victims to be tested after an assault. If you need additional information visit Medline Plus - Pregnancy and Reproduction.

    Sexually Transmitted Infections

    Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can result from sexual assaults. Victims of sexual violence are at risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections.

    • If you went to the emergency room for a rape exam, you should have been offered preventive treatment (antibiotics) for sexually transmitted infections and given information about where to go for follow-up testing.
      • If you need more information about this, or did not receive preventive care, call us and we can help you figure out what resources are available.
    • If you did not get medical care after your attack, it's still important to get tested for sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.
      • The Centers for Disease Control recommend follow-up testing two weeks after a sexual assault and blood tests to rule out HIV infection 6 weeks, 3 months and 6 months after an assault.
    • If left untreated, STIs and HIV can cause major medical problems, so it's very important to get tested (and treated, if necessary) as soon as possible.


    Sexual assault can lead to suicide in extreme cases. Some survivors of sexual assault may get so depressed that they think about ending their own life. Suicidal thoughts should be taken very seriously.

    • If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, please get help immediately.
    • If you have already taken self-harm steps, or feel that you can't avoid harming yourself, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
    • You can also call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline for help 24 hours a day at 800-273-TALK (8255). If you are having suicidal thoughts or you know someone who is, they can listen and help.
    • If you are worried that a loved one is contemplating suicide, it's okay to ask them about it directly. Suicide experts say that asking someone about suicidal thoughts will not lead them to consider suicide if they're not already contemplating it.

    Effects for Adult Survivors of Childhood Sexual Assault

    Experiencing sexual assault as a child can have carryover effects into adulthood. There are many reactions that survivors of rape and sexual assault can have. But for adult survivors of childhood sexual assault there are reactions that may either be different or stronger than for other survivors. These include some of the following symptoms, emotions, and feelings.


    Setting Limits and Boundaries
    • Because your personal boundaries were invaded at a young age by someone that was trusted and depended on, you may have trouble understanding that you have the right to control what happens to you.
    Memories and Flashbacks
    • Memories and flashbacks can occur a long time after experiencing the event. If sex assault was experienced as a child, these memories and flashbacks can last into the adult phase of life.
    • As a child, your anger was powerless and had little to no effect on the actions of your abuser. For this reason, you may not feel confident that your anger will be useful or helpful.
    Grieving and Mourning
    • Being abused as a child means the loss of many things: childhood experiences, trust, perceived innocence, and a normal relationship with family members (especially if the abuser was a family member). You must be allowed to name those losses, grieve them, and then move forward.
    Guilt, Shame, and Blame
    • You may carry a lot of guilt because you may have experienced pleasure or because you did not try to stop the abuse. There may have been silence surrounding the abuse that led to feelings of shame. It is important to understand that it was the adult who abused his/her position of authority and should be held accountable, not you.
    • Learning to trust again may be very difficult for you.
    Coping skills
    • As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, you may have developed skills in order to cope with the trauma. Some of these are healthy (possibly separating yourself from certain family members, seeking out counseling, etc.); some are not (drinking or drug abuse, promiscuous sexual activity, etc.).
    Self-esteem and Isolation
    • Low self-esteem is a result of all the negative messages you received and internalized from your abusers. And because entering into an intimate relationship involves trust, respect, love, and the ability to share, you may flee from intimacy or hold on too tightly for fear of losing the relationship.
    • Many survivors have to deal with the fact that their first sexual experience came as a result of sexual abuse. You may experience the return of body memories while engaging in a sexual activity with another person.

    Body Memories

    Body memories can be an effect of sexual assault. When the memories of the abuse you experienced take the form of physical problems that cannot be explained by the usual means (medical examinations, etc.). These maladies are often called "psychosomatic symptoms" which does not, as many people think, mean that it is "in your head." Rather, it means that the symptoms are due to the connection between the mind and the body. Physical problems that can come of these somatic memories include:

    • Headaches, migraines
    • Light headedness/dizziness
    • Stomach difficulties
    • Hot/cold flashes
    • Grinding of teeth
    • Sleep disorders

    More Information About Sexual Assault

    Sexual assault can have a severe impact on a person's life. To learn more about sexual assault and for more effects of sexual assault, please visit RAINN's Effects of Sexual Assault Page

    Free Sexual Assault Help Resources

    If you are a victim of sexual assault or you know someone who is, reach out and get help. There are many free resources you can use to better understand the sexual assault, the effects, and what can be done to recover.

    Sexual Assault FAQs

    Have questions about sexual assault? Check out the frequently asked questions (FAQs) below to find some answers about what sexual assault is, when it occurs, and other facts about it.

    Yes, sexual assault can easily create trauma. There are the three main phases of trauma which include acute, outward adjustment, and resolution phases. You can learn more about those phases on this page. The trauma can impact a person's life and contribute to depression, flashbacks, PTSD, bodily memories, and even lead to suicide.

    Sexual assault is defined by state revised statutes. For specific questions about a state, Google "sexual assault statute for ___ state." Sexual assault is usually defined by penetration or intrusion of a specific area. These areas usually include the vagina and anus. The specific actions can include intercourse, oral copulation, fellatio, cunnilingus, anal sex, anilingus, fingering, or penetration by other foreign objects or articles. Often times, sexual assault includes several factors like is the sexual action against the victim's will; is the victim impaired, high, mentally debilitated, inebriated (drunk), otherwise unable to make a conscious choice to consent to the sexual act; is the victim in a helpless state like in a coma or asleep.

    Anyone can be a victim of sexual assault. It doesn't matter what a person's gender, orientation, race/ethnicity, religion, or marital status is. All of these people can be sexually assaulted. This includes married couples, common-law marriages, and cohabitation partners.

    When talking about the sexual actions leading up to sexual assault, it depends on the revised statute where the events took place. However, a common theme in across many statutory definitions of sexual assault is the lack of consent from the victim to engage in the sexual act. Other factors like age and ability to consent can also frame the situation and the sexual assault.

    No, not normally. This depends on a state's revised statutes, but sexual assault is usually physical including sexual penetration or intrusion. The verbal aspect would usually be defined under sexual harassment or other similar statutes. These verbal statements typically include unwelcomed or inappropriate sexual remarks, statements, and words.

    This is specific to the person and their ability to forgive the sexual assault. Sexual assault is a deeply emotionally seated crime. It effects a person to the core of their being as a human and usually has many side effects which impact their life. Treatment can help them forgive and heal. This include professional therapy, counseling, anger work, journaling, and other types of therapy.

    Sometimes victims of sexual assault cannot remember specific details of the events. This can last for short periods of time after the assault or longer depending on the person and situation. This is usually caused by forms of compartmentalization where the memories of the situation, details, and events are suppressed. This can be a normal occurrence in traumatic events where the brain excludes certain details in an attempt to protect itself. These suppressed memories of the sexual assault can be remembered more easily with the help of professional counselors, therapists, and other types of memory recovery professionals.

    Help Resources

    • The RAINN Network - Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline

    • The Rape Crisis Center - Free Sexual Assault Counseling Services

    • the blue bench - Sexual Assault Counseling and Workshops

    • Anti-Violence Project - Crisis Intervention Telephone Hotline

    • Childhelp - National Child Abuse Helpline

    • Day One - Youth Sexual Trauma Telephone Hotline

    • Thehotline- National Domestic Violence Hotline

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